Girls, don't stalk your man! This will kill any new relationship instantly. It will threaten a long-term solid relationship if you ever start snooping and stalking your man. It is so easy to do, and so tempting. First, there is MySpace and Facebook, where you can see when he logged in, who his friends are, and all the comments left on his page.

It's enough to drive you crazy, and will certainly waste hours of your time as you chase him all over the web. Resist the temptation: don't do it! Don't try to check his phone messages or his personal email, either. Save yourself all of that grief by refusing to do it in the first place. For one, all of that activity might be there just to see how you react, so don't react at all by not looking to begin with.

If you do see something questionable you must ignore it; don't ask him about it. Two, respect him as a person and treat him with courtesy and trust. Men want to be trusted. They want to believe you think their intentions are good. Don't just say it; do it. Trust him to do the right thing. Third, when you question something you see on his page, you send the message that you are jealous, possessive, unstable, maybe crazy and you don't trust him.

This is not the kind of girl your man wants to date! You are a great person without him and you don't need to stoop to stalking and snooping. You can certainly live without him if he cheats on you. Acting with confidence and refusing to snoop sends that message loud and clear!